Friendships - Easy made

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True friendship is everything

Friends do more than laughing with us, don't they?

Their donations, that they are around us when we need them, give us the feeling, to be worth to be loved and accepted whatever might have happened.

There are moments, when we can laugh together about jokes, past events or actual coincidences. We can share our thoughts, ideas and plans with our friends, maybe we can talk even about our hidden desires, dreams and hopes? Endless talks and laughing, meanwhile even 'nonsense talks' can count more than a thrilling movie....

These are the "good days" while for several minutes everything seems to be "in the flow" and those minutes goes by so quickly....


What a precious gift it can be, when we also can share many of our
feelings with someone? Communication also can be, when our smile
is projected onto the face of our counterpart,  communicating without the
need to talk .....this can be taken as a hidden proof, that when two souls
are connected, a certain exchange of energies takes place from one to another.

It sometimes happens that we need to assist each other on "bad days" .

We don't ask what time of the day it is, when the cry for help of our friend
achieves us. We offer our assistance and sometimes we serve as a solid rock.

How happy resp.somewhat reliefed from a pain we sometimes feel, when

we were invited to have a cry on somebodies shoulder, when we are suffering, 

because we are disappointed from another person or when we are forced to
face a serious loss (job, home, person)?

I guess that none of my readers isn't aware, that's easier to  break an obstacle, 

overcome griefs and mournings, when we have a friend whom we can trust

and who is willing to give us his undivided attention?

A friend, who can put his feelings into words of endearment,
deepfelt words, who can comfort us or sooth our nerves so that
grief and rage can be released more easily?

Well, what do you mean? Is friendship generally based
only on understanding and confidence? Or

what do you think is most substantial for a true friendship?

Maybe yourself experienced in the past, that friendships can cool off
or even break due to disappointment, lack of trust and unrealistic
high expectations?

How did you experience those periods of
instability, fragility or uncertainty?

What are your tips or proposals, by which you
have experienced  maintainance of a friendship?


What do you mean? Is it worth it to be prepared to
invest some more time in the growth, the revival
or reconstruction of an intimate good friendship?

Can you maybe give away a secret tip what might help for
patching it up?

Should it be enough to offer an unreserved or

convenient excuse to your friend? Or is it better to

also expose our feelings like regret, shame, fear

or injury? What kind of proposals have you ever offered?

I can imagine that it would be interesting to learn more
from you, as one estimated reader from my blog, what 

is your opinion  on friendships? Is there maybe something
you would like to exchange with others? 

We could learn from you e.g. more details about an
occasion, when you once had been prepared to "pay a certain price",
to invest in a friendship (a non material gift)? Did it work? 
Or did you maybe loose your  friend forever?

How do we normally use a friendship?  As a form of self protection?
An extension of our Self? Or have we met persons,
to whom we could build up enduring or fast friendships?


Or can we describe it as our most precious expression of love
and respect for another higly appreciated human being, i.e.
a friend is experienced as a fellow creature who makes our life richer
in every respect?


Do we experience our friend as a soul mate?
Or a worthy alternative not to live lonely any more?

I would like to discuss this with all of my readers
resp. your comments should inspire others
to leave their comments too.

I look forward and thank you in advance for many inspiring comments.

True friendship is and remains priceless in our life